To sum man thow mayste tel a pryuy tale : ffor a draw3t of wyne other ale 28 he wolle the wrey, by my fay, 32 And make hyt worse (hyt ys noo nay) Be ware of bagbytynge, y the rede; ley flaterynge vndyr thy foote, loke; 36 Tylle trowth haue serchyd truly be roote; 40 44 Whate euer thow sey, A-vyse the welle ! Dysese, wharre, sorowe and debate, Whan lewyd woordis beth owte y-spronge. You tell a man a secret, and he'll betray it for a drink of wine. Mind what you say. Avoid backbiting and flattering; refrain from and bragging. A venomous tongue causes sorrow. When words are said, regret is too late. To speak aright observe six things: 1. what; 2. of whom; 3. where; 4. to whom; 5. why; 6. when. In every place mind what you say. Almighty God, yf that thow wolte speke A-ry3t, Ssyx thynggys thow moste obserue then : 60 Whare, to wham, whye, and whenne. 64 Thow noost how soone thow schalt go henne; yn euery place, A-monge alle men, Whate euer thow sey, A-vyse the welle! send me grace night and day! Sende me grace both ny3t and daye!" 72 Whate euer thow sey, A-vyse the welle! EXPLICIT &c. A dog in a larder, a sow in a garden, a fool with wise men, are ill matcht. A Dogg Lardyner, & a Sowe Gardyner. [MS. O. 9. 38. Trinity College, Cambridge.] Printed in Reliquiæ Antiquiæ, v. i. p. 233, from MS. Lansdowne hoo so maky3t at crystysmas A dogge lardyner, And yn march A sowe gardyner, And yn may A foole of every wysmanys counsaylle, he schalle neuer haue goode larder, ne fayre gardyn, nother counsaylle welle ykeptt. Maxims in -ly. [MS. Lansdowne 762, fol. 16 b, written as prose, Printed in Reliquiæ Antiquiæ, v. i. p. 233.] Aryse erly, serue God devowtely doo thy werk wisely goo by the waye sadly, goo to thy mete apetitely, of thy tunge be not to liberally, arise therfrom temperally, go to thy supper soberly and Slepe suerly. Fear God, serve your lord faithfully, be courteous to your fellows. Despise no poor man. Carry no tales. Tell no lies. Roger Ascham's Advice to Lord Warwick's Servant. With the different counsels to babees, pages, and servants, throughout this volume, may be compared Roger Ascham's advice to his brother-in-law, Mr C. H., when he put him to service with the Earl of Warwick, A.D. 1559. Here follows part of it, from Whitaker's Hist. of Richmondshire, p. 282. .... First and formost, in all your thoughts, words, and deeds, have before your eyes the feare of God. . . . . love and serve your lord willingly, faithfullye, and secretlye; love and live with your fellowes honestly, quiettlye, curteouslye, that noe man have cause either to hate yow for your stubborne frowardnes, or to malice yow for your proud ungentlenes, two faults which commonly yonge men soones[t] fall into in great men's service. Contemne noe poore man, mocke noe simple man, which proud fooles in cort like and love to doe; find fault with your selfe and with none other, the best waye to live honestlye and quiettly in the court. Carrye noe tales, be noe common teller of newes, be not inquisitive of other menn's talke, for those that are desirous to heare what they need not, commonly be readye to babble what they shold not. Vse not to lye, for that is vnhonest; speake not everye truth, for that is vnneedfull; yea, in tyme and place a harmlesse lye is a greate deale better then a hurtfull truth. Use not Don't play at dice dyceing nor carding; the more yow use them the lesse yow wilbe esteemed; the cunninger yow be at them. or cards. the worse man yow wilbe counted. for pastime, love lord's favourite idleness. hand when you're and learne that which your lord liketh and vseth most, Take to your whether itt be rydeing, shooteing, hunting, hawkeing, sport. fishing, or any such exercise. Beware of secrett corners and night sitting vp, the two nurses of mischiefe, unthriftines, losse, and sicknes. Beware cheifely of Beware of ydlenes, the great pathway that leadeth directly to all evills; be diligent alwayes, be present every where in your lord's service, be at hand to call others, and be not Always be at ofte sent for yourselfe; for marke this as part of wanted. your creed, that the good service of one whole yeare shall never gett soe much as the absence of one howre may lose, when your lord shall stand in need of yow to send. if yow consider alwayes that absence and negligence must needes be cause of greife and sorrowe to your selfe, of chideing and rueing to your lord, and that dutye done diligently and presently shall gaine yow Diligence will get profitt, and purchase yow great praise and your lord's good countenance, yow shall ridd me of care, and wynne your selfe creditt, make me a gladd man, and your aged mother a ioyfull woman, and breed your freinds great you praise. comforth. Soe I comitt and commend yow to God's God be with you! mercifull proteccion and good guidance, who long preserve Your ever loving and affectionate brother in lawe. R. ASKAM. To my loveing Brother in Lawe, Mr C. H., Servant to the Rt. Hon. the Earle of Warwick, these. |